02nd September 2008
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When this kind of tactic doesn't work for a guy, he'll usually try harder, and become even more of a wussy to make a girl like him... and the more a girl runs away, the more of a wussy most guys become.
You do the math and...
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30th August 2008
MISTAKE #9: THEY ALWAYS NEED TO BE THE EXPERT
Have you ever met a smart guy who always needed to be "right"?
Have you ever met someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about... and make a fool of themselves because...
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30th August 2008
I think the reason why I'm so fascinated with "The Genius Failure Paradox" is because I have had to struggle with all of these issues for a lot of years of my life.
Now, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest guy on the planet...
But, I don't think ma...
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28th August 2008
I get a lot of questions from guys asking all kinds of questions about how to behave around women.
In fact, this might be one of the areas that guys want to know the most about.
I've been doing a lot of thinking over the past year or so about the co...
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25th August 2008
REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY "INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS"
What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out?
He looks for information to help him solve the problem.
More information is always the answer.
Inf...
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16th August 2008
Have you ever seen a T. V. show or movie with a girl holding a flower, pulling off each petal one at a time and saying, "He loves me, he loves me not"?
This is a famous cliche... even Madonna does it in her old "Truth or Dare" movie.
What's going on...
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16th August 2008
If you've gone out with a woman 47 times, and you don't know if she likes you, and you're now thinking, "Oh, hey... great idea! I'll buy her a flower and she'll feel attracted to me..." then get a new idea.
Romance isn't a way to make a woman feel attr...
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15th August 2008
I personally think that one of the biggest causes of fear when it comes to situations with women is:
Putting too much importance on what the woman thinks of you and what happens in that particular situation.
To put it in different words, most guys d...
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15th August 2008
Think about the difference between doing something because it's important vs. doing something in order to learn.
So, for instance, if I saw a woman that I wanted to meet... instead of thinking, "OK, I have to say something charming and original so she'...
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15th August 2008
You've probably noticed that I don't talk about the idea of "romance" very often.
There's a good reason for this.
I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way, and in the process screw up their chances with the woman that they are ...
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12th August 2008
5) Keep Telling Her How You Feel When She Needs Space
And as if the last example wasn't painful enough, most guys usually like to use this final "nail in the coffin" technique as well...
Here's the situation:
You've met a girl you really like. Ma...
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23rd July 2008
3) Do "Thoughtful" Things From The Beginning
What's better than a nice, thoughtful guy showing up at the door with flowers and candy for the first date? Well, to quote an old Saturday Night Live episode, "Throwing an entire box of thumb tacks on the fl...
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22nd July 2008
Another huge mistake men make is giving away our power to women.
I'm not going to go into it, but the reality is that women are not attracted to weak men. And I'm not talking about muscles here.
If you act like a Wuss, you are shooting yourself in t...
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22nd July 2008
The real obstacle here is the fear.
As I mentioned, fear of rejection, or imagining rejection when you should be imagining success, leads to walking away.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Ironically, I've found that the best way to over...
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10th July 2008
Now let's talk about those rare instances where a woman actually rejects a man.
For the sake of this discussion, I want to define "rejection" as a woman doing something that lets you know that she's upset and offended that you started talking to her, a...
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